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Holy Week Customs and Traditions

These days leading up to Easter — Maundy Thursday, Good Friday and Holy Saturday — can be powerful if we take time from preparing for our Sunday celebrations and remember to walk more slowly and be more mindful of what these days mean. They can shape us and give us new insights — especially as we recall the amazing love that was shown for us on the cross.

Yes, new life, new beginnings, second chances, whatever you want to call them, they can be ours all because of God’s love and Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross to save us.

As you might have already noticed, Holy Week is one of my most special times. I do step away from the modern world and try my best to carve out a more prayerful, quiet space. And this year, I invite you to join me as I slip on my kirtle (a dress inspired by the middle ages) and light a lamp popular in Colonial times that was inspired by ancient designs and make a German seven green soup that the faithful would eat on Maundy Thursday.

I also invite you to join me for a Tenebrae service. While a shortened version of one that would be held in a church, this service was introduced in the 7th century. Tenebrae is Latin for “shadows” and it is time to reflect on Jesus’ passion.

And so, welcome to Holy Week at the farm! Your time to get away from it all and step back in time with me to pray and ponder.

After watching, let me know what you enjoyed the most!

Blessings!

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Coming Up for Holy Week

As we approach the holiest of days leading to Easter —Maundy Thursday, Good Friday and Holy Saturday — I invite you to take time out from your Easter preparations and to experience some ancient Holy Week traditions from a German seven green soup to a service of Tenebrae (shadows). I also invite you to think about what insights, understandings — dare I say, revelations — came to you during your 40-day Lenten journey to Holy Week. Video will be airing March 28, 7 p.m. EST.

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A Snowy Palm Sunday

March is going out like a lion, roaring in Vermont with a snowstorm that left us with two feet of snow. What a way to head toward Easter! I prefer this time of year to be filled with spring flowers, not icicles. But this is the day the Lord has made, and I will find a way to rejoice in it. Since it is Palm Sunday, the start of Holy Week, I discovered a new tradition called a Palm Bouquet or Palm Stick. Popular in Germany, the bouquet featured seven natural materials (think of Jesus’ seven last words from the cross). The bouquets features material like boxwood and pussy willows. The faithful would bring them to the church on the Saturday before Palm Sunday to have the bouquets blessed. I took mine to Sofie’s Hill — and I close our time at the farm with a Palm Sunday blessing (watch till the end!). But as I trudged in the snow, I was reminded of how hard it is making a new path in it. And that got me thinking how hard it is sometimes to make a new path forward in our lives. And so, on this snowy start to Holy Week, I invite you to discover a new tradition with me and to really reach deep inside to find the strength to move forward in life — and not be afraid of doing the hard work of making a new path. So bundle up! It’s cold out there! Blessings!

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Shepherding Lessons from the Shepherd Saint Himself — St. Patrick

Welcome my friends to a special edition of Olde Stone Well Farm! What’s the occasion? It’s St. Patrick’s Day! They say everyone is Irish on March 17.

This year, though, I found myself thinking about St. Patrick’s early life as a shepherd. I often forget about his humble start. But it was the very vocation of shepherding that enabled Patrick to hear God’s voice and, thus, hear God’s call in his life to serve and proclaim the good news of Christ.

Shepherding is a solitude job and it can be quite harsh. But it is in such wilderness that we can see and hear the Divine.

As a shepherd, I am sure Patrick found himself anointing many a sheep’s head, too. I’ll explain more about that act of pouring oil on a sheep and the powerful meaning of it has for us today.

I also invite you to join me in one of my favorite Lenten activities — making pretzels, which have so many meanings and legends attached to them. I also share with you how beaver — yes, beaver — was once a Lenten delicacy!

And so, welcome!!

Pull up a chair, pour some tea or coffee, and join me at the old farm table — where there is always room for you and your friends.

I’m curious to hear from you as to what shepherding can teach you in your walk of faith today?

And the burning question is this: Do you like corned beef and cabbage? (My husband dislikes this St. Patrick’s day dinner. So I will need a place to a takeout order for my celebration!)

Drop me a note. I love hearing from you. Blessings!

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Signs of Spring and a Surprise Snowfall

What a week I’ve had. I hope yours was better than mine!

First, thank you for the chicken soup recipes many of you sent to me when I was feeling under the weather. It really meant a lot to me, and I tried several of your delicious recipes. I am back now, feeling a bit better — just a wee bit congested still.

But while I was struggling with the sniffles, I had so much work still to do. Writing assignments were due, I was slated to guest preach at a midweek Lenten service and I was also a guest preacher at an adorable Vermont church where dogs are welcomed. It was so cute to see one little fur ball sitting in the pew.

As the week progressed, I began feeling better. Yes, your chicken soup helped, as did the warmth of the sun and signs of spring that I began to see all around.

Just as hope was truly blooming, I got a surprise — four inches of snow the other night. Ugh. I am so ready for spring. But I vowed not to let things beyond my control impact my mood. So I found a way to turn the snow day into a day of joy.

So come and join me as I share the many signs of hope and new life all around and how I even try to see that hope when things just don’t go the way I want them to!

Tell me about your week…and where you are seeing new life, hope and signs of spring where you are!

Blessings!

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Time Doesn’t Heal Hurts, It Teaches You to Live With Them

It is great to be back. After a week away from the chatter of social media, I feel refreshed. But this time off was about more than just the need to unplug, it was a time to acknowledge an important anniversary and to honor the heaviness in my heart.

And I came to realize that time doesn’t heal the heart; rather, time teaches you how to live with the losses and how to keep moving forward.

My time of reflection also came at the start of the Lenten season — those 40 days that the faithful are invited to enter into the wilderness and walk with Jesus to the cross of Good Friday, where on the other side of death, waits new life. I couldn’t think of a better time of year to think about death and life, and everything in between.

So thank you my friends for patiently waiting for a new video. And thank you for being part of Olde Stone Well Farm!

How are you observing the season of Lent? What anniversaries make you move more slowly and make you remember a time gone by? I would love to hear from you.

Blessings!

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Ashes and Hearts and Some Moravian Love Feast Coffee!!

A special time together on this special day as we celebrate Valentine’s Day and Ash Wednesday. Yes, they are both on the same day, and how perfect is that! It’s a time to broaden the definition of love beyond Cupid and chocolate hearts and really remember that the most beautiful love is sacrificial…giving ourselves to another. So on this day, when I burn the palms from last year to make ashes and make some Moravian Love Feast coffee (more on this in the video…hint: it was served at the first love feast in 1720s), I invite you to join me because I have what I think is an important message for you. That is, YOU ARE LOVED!

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Come and Join Me This Shrovetide — And Flip Some Pancakes With Me!

The days leading up to Ash Wednesday, which marks the start of Lent, is often marked by carnivals and feasting. Here at Olde Stone Well Farm, I get ready to enter into the weeks of Lent by observing an ancient time called, Shrovetide — the three days before Ash Wednesday where pantries are rid of meat, eggs, flour and butter. Women would make pancakes on the day before Ash Wednesday and legend has it that they would race to the church to show the priest their pancakes. Today, there are still parts of the world that hold Pancake Flipping Races on the day before Ash Wednesday.

I give it a try (enjoy my feeble attempt at running and flipping at the same time!). I also share with you a wonderful 18th-century pink pancake recipe made by mashing a boiled beet! It is yummy! But there is something deeper to all this fun. This is a time to do some early spring cleaning, to not only clean out the pantry, but clean out the soul — and we do that with confession.

Yes, confession is good for the soul because to be our best we need to recognize our worst. So, come and prepare for the season of Lent with me with a little fun and reflection. Share! Comment! And tell a friend about your visit to Olde Stone Well Farm.

(And yes, that is a picture of my old house at the beginning of this episode. And yes, I did add an “e” to the Old in Olde Stone Well Farm as it feels more 18th-century!) What do you think of this episode.

Let me know!

Blessings!

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Age Is Just a Number — We Should Never Stop Dreaming

I finally visited the homestead of Grandma Moses, a prolific artist who picked up a paintbrush in her late 70s. I needed to be reminded that it is never too late to start something that will add beauty to this world. And, it is never too late to dream up something big and wonderful. With the celebration of Candlemas on Feb. 2 (where I share a candle blessing with you) I was reminded again of two people in the Bible who held onto their dreams and kept believing in God’s promise no matter how long they waited or how old they got. They are an inspiration to me as lately I am feeling age sneak up on me and I am letting the world’s “you’re too old to…” messages put a damper on the dreams I still hold dear to my heart. What about you? Do you still believe that your dreams can come true? Do you realize that you are NOT too old for whatever it is you might want to do? Before you disagree with me, settle in and let’s spend some time together here at Old Stone Well Farm. Blessings to you!! (And share your thoughts…and share this message with others who you think might need a little encouragement to embrace all that life is offering!)

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Blessing the Blahs

The end of January brings with it more rain, then more snow, then more rain…and then lots of foggy days. I don’t know about you, but I need a little ray of sunshine. The winter blahs are hitting many people (like me) earlier than usual.

So much so, that I realized it is time to share with you how I manage to pull myself out of winter’s grip and turn around those drab days by blessing the blahs. That’s right…bless the blahs.

Where can we find goodness? Where is there hope? How can we give ourselves permission to step back and nurture our souls when we are feeling out of sorts?

I read that napping, hugging a pet, going outside for a brisk walk, calling a friend, can be some ways to bless those blahs.

I think, though, giving yourself a mental health day (and not getting out of your pajamas) is another way of coping with the blahs. And RuRu, the cat, agrees! Yes, RuRu makes another guest appearance in the video, along with Fritz, the dog, and my neighbor’s playful cows!

So come, join me! Get comfy, pour yourself some hot coco or coffee or tea and let’s get through the winter blahs together.