Time Doesn’t Heal Hurts, It Teaches You to Live With Them

It is great to be back. After a week away from the chatter of social media, I feel refreshed. But this time off was about more than just the need to unplug, it was a time to acknowledge an important anniversary and to honor the heaviness in my heart.

And I came to realize that time doesn’t heal the heart; rather, time teaches you how to live with the losses and how to keep moving forward.

My time of reflection also came at the start of the Lenten season — those 40 days that the faithful are invited to enter into the wilderness and walk with Jesus to the cross of Good Friday, where on the other side of death, waits new life. I couldn’t think of a better time of year to think about death and life, and everything in between.

So thank you my friends for patiently waiting for a new video. And thank you for being part of Olde Stone Well Farm!

How are you observing the season of Lent? What anniversaries make you move more slowly and make you remember a time gone by? I would love to hear from you.

Blessings!

Ashes and Hearts and Some Moravian Love Feast Coffee!!

A special time together on this special day as we celebrate Valentine’s Day and Ash Wednesday. Yes, they are both on the same day, and how perfect is that! It’s a time to broaden the definition of love beyond Cupid and chocolate hearts and really remember that the most beautiful love is sacrificial…giving ourselves to another. So on this day, when I burn the palms from last year to make ashes and make some Moravian Love Feast coffee (more on this in the video…hint: it was served at the first love feast in 1720s), I invite you to join me because I have what I think is an important message for you. That is, YOU ARE LOVED!

Come and Join Me This Shrovetide — And Flip Some Pancakes With Me!

The days leading up to Ash Wednesday, which marks the start of Lent, is often marked by carnivals and feasting. Here at Olde Stone Well Farm, I get ready to enter into the weeks of Lent by observing an ancient time called, Shrovetide — the three days before Ash Wednesday where pantries are rid of meat, eggs, flour and butter. Women would make pancakes on the day before Ash Wednesday and legend has it that they would race to the church to show the priest their pancakes. Today, there are still parts of the world that hold Pancake Flipping Races on the day before Ash Wednesday.

I give it a try (enjoy my feeble attempt at running and flipping at the same time!). I also share with you a wonderful 18th-century pink pancake recipe made by mashing a boiled beet! It is yummy! But there is something deeper to all this fun. This is a time to do some early spring cleaning, to not only clean out the pantry, but clean out the soul — and we do that with confession.

Yes, confession is good for the soul because to be our best we need to recognize our worst. So, come and prepare for the season of Lent with me with a little fun and reflection. Share! Comment! And tell a friend about your visit to Olde Stone Well Farm.

(And yes, that is a picture of my old house at the beginning of this episode. And yes, I did add an “e” to the Old in Olde Stone Well Farm as it feels more 18th-century!) What do you think of this episode.

Let me know!

Blessings!

Age Is Just a Number — We Should Never Stop Dreaming

I finally visited the homestead of Grandma Moses, a prolific artist who picked up a paintbrush in her late 70s. I needed to be reminded that it is never too late to start something that will add beauty to this world. And, it is never too late to dream up something big and wonderful. With the celebration of Candlemas on Feb. 2 (where I share a candle blessing with you) I was reminded again of two people in the Bible who held onto their dreams and kept believing in God’s promise no matter how long they waited or how old they got. They are an inspiration to me as lately I am feeling age sneak up on me and I am letting the world’s “you’re too old to…” messages put a damper on the dreams I still hold dear to my heart. What about you? Do you still believe that your dreams can come true? Do you realize that you are NOT too old for whatever it is you might want to do? Before you disagree with me, settle in and let’s spend some time together here at Old Stone Well Farm. Blessings to you!! (And share your thoughts…and share this message with others who you think might need a little encouragement to embrace all that life is offering!)